After years of knowing someone it can be easy to assume you already know everything about them and yet we are not stagnant beings, we have new thoughts and experience fresh feelings and reactions to the world around us daily. Learning to ask good questions allows relationship to flourish and deepen as our hearts and minds are stirred by our experiences. And learning to reflect and answer with brave vulnerability deepens that relationship even further.

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Find a time to sit down with your spouse and connect. Instead of finishing the night off with a show or planning another night out, stay home, get some cheese and crackers out, bake some cookies, sit on the couch and use some of the questions below to prompt your conversation and open up to one another. Be curious about each other, don’t simply ask the question and answer, prob deeper, ask the follow up question.

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Read the questions below or you can download them and print them out.

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